You’ll have noticed the surprising thing here is that man on top is not number one on either the men’s or the women’s list of preferences, yet we know that more couples have more sex in the man on top position than any other. So why do men and women say that they prefer rear entry, woman on top and spooning to man on top sex positions?

I think the answer is perhaps that most couples really like the man on top position, but they think it might seem a bit boring or conventional, so their answers to the question “Which sex position do you prefer?” really reflects the positions which they fantasize about or think are more exciting!

But there aren’t really any surprises in the positions men say they prefer. Certainly, we’d all expect rear entry to be high on men’s list of favorites. It’s a position which most men find irresistible, with a very arousing view of one’s partner inviting one to make love with abandon, in a raw, powerful, masculine style. Since most men like to see the “ins and outs” of lovemaking, so to speak, this position is very exciting and often arouses men so much that they cannot last particularly long! This may make the position rather less than satisfying for women, although when a couple are enjoying rear entry sex, a woman does have the opportunity to show the powerful side of her sexual nature, and she can make love with lust and passion. It’s only likely to be unappealing for a woman if she has issues with her body, or she thinks her man will see her body at its worst when she’s exposed to his gaze like this. (A note for women readers – your man probably cares a lot less about the appearance of your naked body than you do…he’s about to make love with you, for one thing, and he probably isn’t paying much attention to the bits you find unattractive!) Another advantage of this position is that it makes for the deepest penetration possible, which is another deeply satisfying experience for most men. Unfortunately a rather large number of women feel that the rear entry position makes them into a sex object, which in a way is understandable, since of all the sex positions, this is one where men are likely to get carried away with lust.

Woman on top is a satisfying position for both partners. The woman can control the depth, speed and angle at which her man enters her, which makes her much more likely to have the pleasure of an orgasm during intercourse. And of course she can stimulate herself as she likes during lovemaking, which adds to the chance of her reaching a climax during sex. So why isn’t this position as popular as man on top? I think the answer lies in our preconceived roles of how men and women should act during sex; that is to say, we tend to think the man must lead, initiate and dominate during sex, and the woman must be the “receiving” partner, be less assertive, act more passively, take a more “receptive” role. When a woman’s on top, she has the chance to reverse these roles, to lead and to control the pace of sex; but although this may be exciting once in a while, it may be too much against our established view of sex roles for us to feel comfortable with it if we were to use it all the time. Woman on top therefore remains a treat which couples enjoy from time to time as a variation on the established pattern of sex.

So man on top sex remains the favorite sex position of almost everyone – despite what people claim in surveys! It’s certainly a very satisfying experience for both partners, and as I mentioned above it is indeed the sex position which most couples use more often than any other. Why? Well, it’s very easy to get into, it’s relaxing for the woman, who can enjoy the sense of her man entering her and making love, there’s lots of opportunity for eye contact, plenty of bodily contact and usually deep penetration, and there’s also the romance and pleasure of kissing. For the man, there is the satisfaction of deep penetration, powerful thrusts, and perhaps a slight sense of dominance over his partner – I suspect this is important to many men, and it allows the woman in turn to enjoy a sense of being dominated by a loved and trusted partner. To sum this up – it feels good for both the man and the woman! And of course in some variations of the man on top position, it is possible to see the most intimate details of your lovemaking, so you can enjoy seeing the most intimate connection between you and your partner. For many a man, there’s no better moment in sex than that of pushing into his partner in the man on top position, watching her reaction as she feels the wonderful sensation of being so intimately connected to her partner, of being “taken” by her lover. There’s a profundity to this connection which defies words, and in my opinion man on top sex fulfils some very basic and deep instincts for both men and women. It brings out the masculine in men, and the feminine in women – in short, it reinforces our sexual sense of self.

Perhaps the greatest thing about man on top is the deep connection that can develop between a couple. One drawback is that the deep penetration and pelvic thrusts open to a man can make him reach his orgasm quickly, though this can be controlled if a couple slow down the pace of sex for a while to allow his arousal to drop. Once in a while a couple may agree to have a quickie, a session of lovemaking where the man just goes for his pleasure, with the agreement and support of his partner – a no-frills session of lovemaking, which satisfies his deep urges and allows him to enjoy himself without the need for much foreplay. This is a very satisfying thing for men, and if a couple can build this into their love life, it may encourage the man to spend time romancing and seducing his partner in the way she likes the next time they make love.

Side by side positions for sex are very much about slow, romantic, gentle lovemaking. They allow the partners to gaze into each other’s eyes, to have full body contact, and to enjoy the most intimate connection without the man reaching his orgasm too quickly. If you’re not already incorporating side by side sex into your lovemaking, why not start with the basic side by side position? Start making love in the man on top position and then roll over (without the man coming out of his partner), and you should be able to get yourself into a relaxing position on your sides. gentle lovemaking can then continue for as long as you like! You can talk, caress, rest and resume, going on for as long as you wish, until you both reach a very satisfying orgasm. And since either he or she can stimulate her clitoris, this might even be be a simultaneous orgasm – an experience well worth seeking out, as it’s more intense than coming separately.

You can see much more information on all these sex positions, and many more, on the excellent website Sex Techniques and Positions, and another superb website about intimate relationships called Sex and Relationships. It’s well worth having a look at these websites if  you’d like to know how to expand your sex life!

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1. Avoid all high-risk sex practices such as vaginal, anal and oral sex without a condom. Avoid having sex with a commercial sex worker (prostitute), with a partner who shares needles and syringes with other drug users, and casual sex with a person whose sexual history is not known to you.

2. Never allow women, vaginal fluids, blood or menstrual blood to come into contact or enter the vegina, anus, penis, mouth or broken skin. Wash your hands with soap and water if they have been in contact with semen or other body fluids. Rinse your mouth with cold (not hot) water, if in contact with semen. But don’t brush your teeth immediately afterwards (a toothbrush can cause damage and bleeding – an easy entrance for the virus)

3. Avoid sex when either partner has open sores on the genitals or any sexually transmitted infection (STIs)

4. Avoid anal or rough vaginal intercourse. Do not do anything that could tear the skin or moist the lining of the genitals, anus or mouth and cause bleeding.

5. Do not perform oral sex when you have cold, a sore throat, open sores in your teeth in the few hours before intended oral sex. Also avoid if there are sores on your partner’s genitals.

6. If you perform oral sex on man (called fellatio), always use a condom. Although the risk of HIV transmission through oral sex is low, fellatio has high risk for HIV infection if the partner performing it receives semen into her mouth. If you find the taste of latex, particularly of condoms that are pre-lubricated, repulsive when using condoms during oral sex, try out the fruit and mint flavored condoms. But, make sure that they are of good quality.

7. if your want to perform oral sex on women, a dental dam ( or latex sheath placed over the vagina) will make sure you don’t get vaginal fluid or menstrual blood into your mouth. Non-porous plastic wraps, such as non-microwavable plastic wrap (e.g. Glad Wrap) can also be placed over the vagina. Or, a condom can also be cut open risk of HIV transmission (if the skin is intact and if the woman is not menstruating), other STDs can be transmitted in this way.

8. The majority of STIs occur when infected mucous membranes come into contact with uninfected mucous membranes. When performing oral sex, the herpes simplex virus and the infective agents that are present if one has gonorrhea and syphilis infections on one’s lips, mouth or throat, can cause infections of the genitals -and vice versa.

9. While oral-anal sex doesn’t appear to carry a high risk for HIV infection unless there is blood present, the possibility of contracting the hepatitis B virus, herpes simplex virus, cytomegalovirus virus and other parasites is very high. For safety, use a latex sheath (dental dam), Glad Wrap or a spliced – open condom to cover the anal area.

10. if one has open wounds on the fingers, one should wear a condom over that finger before inserting it into the vagina or anus of the partner.

11. Avoid alcohol and illicit drugs because they can impair your immune system as well as your judgment. It always helps to adopt alternative sexual practices that are less likely to results in infection by HIV, other viruses or infection causing agents.

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Adult dating is not just about finding the perfect person to marry – it can be all just for fun too. Sex chat is available on some dating sites and can be a good way to find sex contacts for when you are just in the mood to have fun. Whether you are married or single, anything goes for these sites.   It is easy to find what you are looking for when you check out a site that caters to those who just want to have some fun.

Everyone needs a little spice in their life. And what better way to find it than by hooking up with a total stranger who you meet online. It starts with sex chat but can progress from there. Adult dating sites can help anyone find someone who they fancy and who will fancy them.

It can be dull to be with the same person for many years. One of the reasons that people cheat is because they are bored. What often starts as a flirtation begins to blossom into a love affair. This usually spells disaster for the marriage. In most cases, the errant partner does not want to leave their spouse; they just want a bit of excitement in their life. Sex chat can give someone this without the involvement of an affair. At an adult dating site, you set the rules that you want to play by.

Sex chat can be done with webcams or just on the computer. Those who find someone who they like on the adult dating site can have a private sex chat so that they get to know one another. There are some people; usually those who are married and do not technically want to step out on their mate, who enjoy this sort of sex play nightly on their computers. The two people involved in the adult dating site and who are using sex chat to have naughty flirtations often never meet. This is just a bit of fun for them, similar to playing online video games.

You can find many adult dating sites online, but look for those that offer sex chat. Many sites are strictly for dating purposes and do not allow any hookups. Some of them ban those who are married from the site. Others do not offer any type of chat. If you are looking for naughty sex fun, then you need to look for an adult dating site that offers the sex chat.

So whether you are bored and want to have some fun when you are sitting in front of your computer, or if you want to actually meet someone for adult dating, you can do so when you go to a website that has been created for this type of encounter. No longer do you have to feel lonely or bored; you can have a bit of fun when you visit an adult sex chat site.

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Safe phone sex is always adventurous. Venturing into the unknown always comes with a lot of anxiety and gives you a good dose adrenaline wash. Phone sex is something you had never had before leave alone practicing it. But here comes a time when desperate situations call for desperate measures. Your partner has to answer to a call of duty. But does it mean it is the end of your sex life? Of course no. Experience the adventure of phone sex. At first it may feel like navigating through uncharted waters but if practiced safely you will take command and nothing will feel more pleasurable than phone sex. It feels so real sometimes. Just like your partner were there with you. It becomes a ritual that you always long for. It creates so much excitement in you. It is lovemaking done in a different style. Sex reloaded.

It needs prior preparation just like normal physical sex. You have to set the mood very straight before starting phone sex which means getting naked. You could even re-establish contact with yourself with a move akin to masturbation. Your mind must be psychologically prepared and tuned in order to achieve the desired height of pleasure. Their is no eye contact unless you have equipped yourself with a video cam. Remember safe phone sex is non sexual. It is all in the mind. A game of the mind which is the most versatile sex organ. Critics have labelled it as foolery but tele-fooling has the capacity of saving a relationship. It keeps couples in touch, it makes them feel more closer after a love making session on the phone. Safe phone sex ensures that the fire keeps on burning.

Dim the lights and heighten the theme of the night by putting some sexy music in your player. You are going to have sex with your partner and it is no mean joke. It could do with a little tele foreplay just to get things straight and flowing. Sex has never been better. Safe phone sex allows the creativity of the mind and body which makes you to identify with your body. You might discover what turns you on or some new erogenous zone you didn’t know. Imagine making a phone sex date with your partner. It keeps you in the right sex mood as you wait with anticipation for a physical meeting.

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